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Matti Freeman
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Postby Matti Freeman » 09 Sep 2016, 09:16

DAY 328: 3 - THE ONLY REASON AND PURPOSE THAT MAKES SENSE TO ME
http://www.matterfreeman.com/2016/09/da ... -that.html

Part 3 of how my Education shaped my Career Path. Here I'm sharing the role Reason and Purpose played in my relationship to jobs, career, money, and skill development.

You may find that you don't see a reason or point to pursuing a career or participating in the world system, and that your life is mostly just a 'hobby', along with a job you work in order to get by.

What reason did I find that changed the way I looked at my participation in the world?



Matti Freeman
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Postby Matti Freeman » 09 Sep 2016, 09:17

DAY 329: 4 - DOES NOT COMPUTE! GOING BLANK WHEN YOUR PROGRAMMING IS NOT EFFFECTIVE
http://www.matterfreeman.com/2016/09/da ... blank.html

Part 4 of my series about how my Education shaped my Career Path.

Have you ever been in a totally new situation that causes you to go into absolute anxiety to the point where your words and physical stability actually shut down and you can't speak?

Here I share an experience from when I first was getting involved in business and education, when I walked into a school office to try and make an appointment. I can sum it up in 3 words: Does Not Compute!

This event opened the door to seeing the nature of my mind and behavior in a whole new way.



Matti Freeman
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Postby Matti Freeman » 09 Sep 2016, 09:17

DAY 330: 5 - WHAT I EXPERIENCED DURING MY FIRST EVER SALES PRESENTATION
http://www.matterfreeman.com/2016/09/da ... ng-my.html

Education and my Career Path Part 5: What I experienced during my first sales presentation. Can you say....hell? lol

Through my first sales experiences I realized the extent to which how we 'feel' about the prospect of a particular job or career, is determined by our relationship to the words that define that job.



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Postby Matti Freeman » 14 Sep 2016, 07:40

DAY 331: 6 - DISCOVERING YOUR POTENTIAL TAKES TIME
http://www.matterfreeman.com/2016/09/da ... ntial.html

Part 6 of how my Education Shaped my Career Path. Here sharing more about my first sales experiences, the pain of change, and how getting involved in something completely outside of my comfort zone had supported in discovering more natural skills and strengths that I hadn't seen before.

What if survival and access to all the support we need was a guaranteed human right, and the education system was based on supporting each child to develop a confident character with high self esteem, free to explore different kinds of projects and participation during their formative and adolescent years in order to discover where and how they can make a satisfying contribution to the world?

How many people's potential contribution has been compromised through developing a character that is not effective in practical reality?



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Postby Matti Freeman » 10 Jul 2017, 07:45

Day 332: Living the gifts of your unique circumstance
http://www.matterfreeman.com/2016/10/da ... nique.html

With the access we have to other people's live through social media, it's very easy to get caught up in comparing your life to another's; in particular those who we see as being more successful, more effective, more happy, more free - the list goes on. Within this it's very easy to form ideas about what you 'should' have, or what your life is 'supposed to look like', and then judge what you have as 'not enough', or 'not good enough'. This can lead to us missing out on the gifts and opportunities we in fact DO have in our unique life circumstance.

How can you benefit from identifying and accepting the gifts of your unique life circumstance, and letting go of comparison?
https://soundcloud.com/mfm-radio/living ... rcumstance



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Postby Matti Freeman » 10 Jul 2017, 07:45

Day 333: Redefining Words: Patience and Impatience
http://www.matterfreeman.com/2016/10/da ... e-and.html

I was inspired by the Reptilian series interview about Patience, to investigate the word Patience for myself and redefine it.

You can hear the interview here:
Patience: A Patient of… - Reptilians - Part 546
https://eqafe.com/p/patience-a-patient- ... s-part-546

So, let's look at Patience.

It seems that Patience goes hand in hand with Impatience.


When I look at the word Impatient, some interesting things emerge:

I'm Patient -- I'm Pace - I am Pace -- I am this Pace, I am the Patient of MY Pace -- that would be where I'm Tying and restricting myself - as in a straight jacket that a Mental Patient wears, lol, to the Pace that I AM defining myself and the moment according to. And, this would thus be why when I'm 'Impatient' - it feels like 'I'm being held back' by the current circumstance / time frame which, is not aligning to 'My Time Frame'.

So, to live Patience practically in physical space and time where - things can happen that are not planned, would be the following:

Pacing myself to the Pace of what is possible within the current Space Time moment through adapting, adjusting, changing, letting go of my preferred, planned, or anticipated time-frame for reaching / creating a given goal, responsibility, outcome, need, or want.

This gives me the framework for identifying the WHY within the experience of impatience. For instance, identifying - what is the need, want, outcome, preference, goal related to the moment, and what is the Time Frame I have defined it within, which is causing the experience of being held back / impatience.

In assisting and supporting myself to live Patience within and as this new definition, I prevent Impatience - I prevent myself from becoming the patient of the moment.

Of course within this, it's also to realize that I can still push myself to move faster / more effectively / find shorter routes to goals, etc - but the emotional / inner friction experience of Impatience is actually not required for this, because it's a matter of Self Honestly assessing the situation / factors involved in a time frame, and identifying where / how more effective actions / self movement is possible to 'speed things up'.

And the key is Breathing, because you cannot do more than what you can do one breath at a time!

Enjoy



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Re: Matti's Blogs

Postby Matti Freeman » 10 Jul 2017, 07:47

Day 334: 7 Redefining One Word can Open up Opportunities for Change
http://www.matterfreeman.com/2016/10/da ... -open.html

In Part 7 of how my Education shaped my Career Path I talk about my experience with the word "Learning", and how when I redefined the word in a practical way for myself, I was able to start assisting and supporting myself to push through career related resistances and develop new skills.

https://soundcloud.com/mfm-radio/redefi ... for-change



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Postby Matti Freeman » 10 Jul 2017, 07:47

Day 335: Making a Good First Impression
http://www.matterfreeman.com/2016/10/da ... ssion.html

Sharing some things I learned about myself through investigating the words 'making a good first impression' when meeting new people. Do you get nervous when meeting new people?

https://www.facebook.com/MattiFreeman/v ... 862073076/



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Postby Matti Freeman » 10 Jul 2017, 07:48

Day 336: Genuine Self Expression vs. Social Survival
http://www.matterfreeman.com/2016/10/da ... on-vs.html

Sharing my realization of how, when those little moments come up where I'll worry what others might think about me / how they might judge me - I'm not standing within my Genuine Self Expression.

Where in your own life do you see yourself accessing the fear of not being socially accepted / worrying what others might think about you? What words can you re-define in a way that supports you to develop your Genuine Self Expression?

I'll be sharing more posts giving perspective on my process with changing myself from interacting with others through personalities / copied behavior and expressions, to developing my natural, genuine self expression which is still something I'm substantiating myself as in my daily living and interaction with others.
https://www.facebook.com/MattiFreeman/v ... 660088076/



Matti Freeman
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Postby Matti Freeman » 10 Jul 2017, 07:49

Day 337: How Dogs Assisted Me to Expand my Self Expression
http://www.matterfreeman.com/2016/11/da ... xpand.html

Sharing about how spending time with dogs during a particular period living with friends in South Africa assisted me to expand my self expression.

Are you uncomfortable around dogs? Are you afraid to get dirty, or 'let down your guard'?

What kind of programming can dogs assist you to see in yourself?

https://www.facebook.com/MattiFreeman/v ... 821808076/




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