I've been exploring the point of sex and relationships lately and something curious keeps happening. When I am in the presence of a woman, it's like I am immediately thrust into this position where I can see that I could create an agreement with this woman, or at least move myself towards that. The thing is, there is no analysis going on. It's like some force is watching me and says, oh, he's going to approach a woman, let's set up the situation so that he receives the suggestion that he could go into an agreement with this person. And then I get there, and it's like, yeah, every fiber in my being is screaming: "Initiate! Initiate!" (an agreement). Within the moment, it also feels right, like if I actually did initiate within the context of moving towards an agreement with this person I've never met, I wouldn't regret it/everything would be ok/it would be best for all.
But then I shut it down and afterwards I have time to consider what just happened. And then I realize that I have not gotten to know this person at all, I don't know if she's actually a type of person who is more/less compatible with me than another, but within the moment it seems right. I account this to the quantum physical process trying to speed things up, where it's sorting of fudging things to try and get me to take the bait and enter into an agreement quickly so my process can move on. Perspectives?