Have a look at something fascinating here Nick: Can you see in your words how you base your perception, your beliefs, your opinions and how you define/respond to things based on how you feel? It is actually quite fascinating. I've done this as well my entirely life, because I grew up in a culture where I was taught that whatever I feel, is true. "If it feels wrong, don't do it.", "Only do what feels right". The problem with that was that feelings and emotions are not reliable as 'compass' or navigators when it came to directing and steering myself in the world, because: My feelings and emotions are exclusive to me, they are created through my life experience, my memories, my likes and dislikes. So within claiming that something is for example true or not true based on how I feel, I condition that trust to my own exclusive point of view - a point of view that is often self-interested and skewed. Like if I "don't feel like it" I would perceive as my feelings 'telling me the truth' so to speak, when perhaps I was simply acting in self-interest.I do not have the right to judge this forum cause I haven't red much yet. But I do feel like I have to speak what I feel about this forum. So Im not feeling the word 'cool'. I do not feel understood when someone says 'cool' to me, It feels like the one who is speaking it is shallow(which is not true), It feels like that one is somewhere in dreamland thinking everything is cool, it feels like that one wants to say something to be nice, feels like that one wants to support someone to be nice.
Nice does not feel real to me. Cool does not feel real to me so I react.
Why thanking for something you do not see as supportive support?Thanks for the support. Its not cool support
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