https://rauljourney2life.wordpress.com/ ... x-support/
Day 42 – Masturbation and sex support
In first place, I share here a link about all the story of how masturbation really in fact works, so here you have a lot of stories all related to what I am going to talk about https://eqafe.com/p/shocking-secrets-of ... troduction
So now I am going to share my honest perspective about masturbation, and how it became something supportive for me instead of a waste of my energies.
I can't tell you about women, I have my experience as a man, and I talk from there. I think men are more inclined to make sex something big, something exciting, it's like you see women in advertising and stuff and you have sutil feeling of go there and do it, most people are unaware of how sutil it is the movement of energy, because most people doesn't really understand their own sex mechanism and they accept it as normal and they make something irresponsable acceptable in this world.
I want to say that when you feel that something is good, that something takes you out of your centered being, problem. Problem in the sense of, you need to go here, in this point that moved, and understand yourself, because you are literally giving up your potential, for an experience of energy. We have always felt in some way, that masturbation is something that can easily stop being supportive for us, why? Because with things we like or enjoy, we tend to go into an experience of energy, and thereforce consuming the resources of the body, rather than acting in a supportive way for ourselves and this world, and directing ourselves with honest fredom. With sex or masturbation, we reach a point where we don't care about what is supportive for anything, it becomes a fountan of irresponsability and consecuence, where we are simply wasting our lives for energy. I am going to tell you something right now, you don't know the potential of a human, we initially think oh... how could I just be myself when I am driven to energy experiences that feel so good... but, believe me, you don't know what is inside of you, if you decide, if you make a decition, a gift is going to be given to you, and your life and perspectives will shift sometimes, but once you know the trick that is already inside of you, you are going to start growing and expanding and you will become someone to be admired, because you will have the equilibrium needed to protect this world.
So, almost every person who masturbates in developed countries does it to porn. Because it's a way of stimulating even more, of giving up responsability for an even more intense experience of energy that leads you to a sooner death, and you get addicted more easily, and you start having fear, because when we are attached to something, we are having fear of losing it, because if you only thought about losing it it would be like no man that's hard. That is in fact fear, addiction. That's stopping your potential. I can talk about how masturbation and images in porn influence your body and mind, but that is walked in the link I provided, so I invite you to listen to those interviews for more information about porn, right now I am just going to say that with porn you create more consecuence and you get more addicted.
So there is something in us, that knows that we are creating consecuence with masturbation, like a part of us that knows that we are becoming possesed, and we want to do it because that is how addiction works. Currently, the way I see it, there is a demon created by humanity feeding of sexual energy of all the people who is masturbating to porn, and man just look at the numbers it's a biiiig ammount of people, it's the dark secret of humanity. These people didn't have the chance to realize their potential, and now that the opportunity is presented and you can choose between up or down, it's very easy to go down. I mean you are at the beggining drown to going down, because you are not awake, it's easy to remain sleeping, there is a huge market in this world, a world set up with almost no support between people, and when we see in our existence that something has changed we are not in first place going to go up and up and up, and it's normal, it's acceptable, you should forgive yourself. Why? Because you are facing right here something that you can't imagine, something that will lead you to not only use masturbation energy for your own benefit, but in last instance, trascending sex, and thereforce trascending all humanity, and not only becoming someone with the power to direct this world and support everything, but someone who will never suffer again, someone who will be able to take care of himself, that's why we are here for, to realize our potential to express free from energy experiences, directing the energy, rather than being driven by it.
So everybody can say I don't work based on sex. But the reality is, how many people do you know that take the consciouss effort to bring a mind free from the attachment of sex either from relationships or porn, and take that to every part of their being? It's not a simple task, because sex is basically how life works. For a normal mind, there is not a single reason to go against sex, and you really can't find reasons to go against sex, sex meaning forming a relationship, or simply being driven by sexual expression. Because how it works, what you see in the other person, it's something that is one, and takes you out of what supports you and this world. Sex is in fact the most simple thing to understand, it's just "that". If we want to change this world, that it is what everybody should be doing in this life, we must learn to direct our energies. Because masturbation is selfish, is pointless, and it's a way of escaping your life. And relationships are more or less the same, and in them you are going to take to yourself the mind from another being, this has a lot of consecuences too, and really, what is more pointless than a relationship with someone you feel atracted to? It's a declaration to this world that you only care about your energies experiences and that you are only interested in giving your soul to something that you don't even understand. Because, you perceive the relationships as something cool, a gift from the life for no apparent reason or consecuence, something beautiful, your heart is in it, the very core of your personality is based on sex (if not all, a very big part of it) because you know not everybody has a nice job that releaves them from the necesities of this world and makes them inspired with life all the time. Most people are just bored and punish themselves with their work to gain money, and then they just need that release of energy to function normally and don't see that everything is pointless.
So relationships and feeding sex is something pointless, it's not caring about anything more than how you feel, that's why you need relationships, you believe in real love. When it's just in fact sex, and we have a tendency to not accept that our nature is based on sex, when it's something so obvious. But it's not obvious for most of people, because the rest of the world is also functioning in sex, and if you say it outloud, it's like if the other person said, how are you talking about this? Nobody tries to understand sex unless he is insane, because all of us understand that nobody can go against it. I say understanding as, transforming it.
So, sex is beautiful, but when you let yourself be possesed, be aware that you are doing it to yourself, and that it will come back to you, as a direct consecuence. And in our nature, we don't like consecuencies, if we could just avoid our responsability forever and never understand the totally of our mind...
Now, this is not what sex or masturbation or orgasm is, this is what has been translated from it to this world, through the mind. I talk now about real sex, pure sex, supportive sex. In first place, it's not something that you need desire and want. If that is the case, there is support for you to be received in the link I provided. Sex only feels like sex for the mind, because the mind has taken that part of us and create what it felt like creating. But sex is something very important, it's something in direct conection with our body, what we do in the moment of orgasm, remains in us. So we must be very specific, because sex is very specific. Sex is not what the minds perceives. Sex is a normal thing, that is just there as a mechanism. But due to the point of consecuence we have created in our bodies, sex has become something separated from our physical body, and sex should be a moment of intimate conection, where we discover something about ourselves, of who we already are, not a way of evolving our enslavement. Use the moment of orgasm to perceive the reality of the experience. Don't bring the mind to it, let the experience be expressed, let all the fantasies go, go back to your body conection, you will be suprised how much you have been wanting to bring the sex mind conection to your physical body. This is a very important point, because it affects and creates a lot, and it should belong to you, not to your mind. The part of yourself that you let be controlled by sex, are part of yourself you are losing. I am not saying with this be against sex, I am just saying let sex be, don't go in there with your mind, and also understand the responsability of having a relationship and how even that can make you express more who you really are, and not who you are as a possesed state of energy that will eventually run out and you will then be heartbroken, because man... or woman... those stories about sex and fairy tails created by disney are just that, ways of enslaving your consciousness, and who we are is not a slave, but this will need of your inconditional support to become a reality in your body, but here is something fascinating, we are already that that we dream of, we are already that! We are just allowing it to be expressed, and nothing of this world should makes you desire and need something separated from you, doesn't matter how beautiful it looks like from the outside, the answer is always inside.
For more info and support about everything of this, visit eqafe.com