Light Question

[Soy]

I have a strange question...

Someone that was the closest person in my life commited suicide
and one day I was staring at a light bulb, I don´t know why I percived his presence
today I´m writting something about him that is like a forgiveness compromise
and when I walk outside I feel once again his precense, and suddenly the bulb
starts flashing, when I approach to it, it goes flashing faster and when I think
prove me that this is you, it stops...and few seconds later starts flashing again,
finally when I walk away it stops completely and when I look back thinking
on this person it goes flashing fast again...(this bulb has never flashed before)

Is it possible that a being from the dimentions would get into a bulb to comunicate?

What happens in the dimentions to someone that has killed himself?

PS I have started today the Self writing

[Soy]

Well the bulb is flashing again and I feel no precence
so I guess the answer is that all of
this "comunication" through othe light bulb was just a fantasy,
mind creation, not real..lol

but I still would like to know what actually happens to
the people that commited suicide...


THANKS

[Marlen]

Cool that you've answered your own question in relation to the fantasy point.

And there's videos that explain this point:

Marcus: Caso de Estudio - Mi Suicidio

In essence what happens with them is having to walk through their Self-Forgiveness process no different to any other being - there is no 'damnation' or 'hell' if that is in any way part of the query here. All go through the same process at the moment.

Realize that everything that you 'experience' as a presence or whatever light you see: it's all you and your own mind = your own creation -there is no 'supernatural' thing going on in any way whatsoever. In such case I suggest walking through writing your experience toward the death of your father, so that you are then able to clearly see what it is that you are still holding on to in relation to such death.

For that, you know the tools: writing, self forgiveness and self corrective statements - there's plenty of examples here in the forum on how to do so - share them as well for further support.

[barbara]

Hi Soy!

Also check out:

http://desteni.org/a/questions-and-pers ... fter-death
and
http://desteni.org/a/the-how-of-regret

which I found interesting with respect to death. The factor of regret seems to be the most prominent point one faces especially when having committed suicide. So, suggested to see how one is able to integrate these points for oneself as to minimize regret, and do what we are able to in this one lifetime, because we only have this one life here and this one body to walk the self-forgiveness and ourselves back to reality.

[Ann]

Try changing the lightbulb

[Soy]

I will change the bulb today...

and yes, is about regret, I´m studying now a degree on Acupuncture and is hard to me realizing that my father (how did you know that was my father?) could have had a different treatment, that I could have actually supported him through a Self-forgiveness process instead of being feeding the systems using the psichiatric pills that ended with his life, I feel badly guitly that I was not strong enough to pursue this homeopatic and psicological support on him and now I want to start the Self forgiving process so I can help and support other people that is suffering the same way my father did, and also other ways, I think everymind is a suffering mind even when it shows happiness, deep down, there in subcounciuoss and unconciouss realms all the life suffering of all mankind and all the nature and animals is there, within everybody within everymind... So I have lots of things to read and write...actually now I´m doing research on depression and acupunctural psicological cures, I´m studying the mind through Chinese Traditional Medicine...

Hugs for everybody

[KimKline]

and yes, is about regret, I´m studying now a degree on Acupuncture and is hard to me realizing that my father (how did you know that was my father?) could have had a different treatment, that I could have actually supported him through a Self-forgiveness process instead of being feeding the systems using the psichiatric pills that ended with his life, I feel badly guitly that I was not strong enough to pursue this homeopatic and psicological support on him and now I want to start the Self forgiving process so I can help and support other people that is suffering the same way my father did, and also other ways

One of the things that is important to eventually realize is that every being is self-responsible, so, there's no way to tell if you 'could have' done something within the millions of different ways the events 'could have' played out. The reality is that it happened the way it happened and your father chose for himself.

Forgive yourself for the guilt that comes with wondering about 'what if I had done something differently/been more/done more/tried harder...etc' because the guilt will limit you and sabotage you and that will result in two lives lost.
The best way to support others is to support yourself unconditionally, that's why this process comes from a starting point of self-support and not a starting point of supporting others. This is about YOU Soy, and about what you are willing to give yourself as Life. Are you willing to give yourself Life? Guilt is not Life, it exists only as memories of/as the past, and has no Life. Life only exsts Here, in the present moment- so it's about learning from your mistakes, changing yourself accordingly, and letting go.

[Soy]

Yes, some time before I was close to death, but somehow I knew that I was gonna survive, I feel a lot o pain when I watch the news, It seems nobody is aware that this is going to massive suicide, something big has to change, don`t you see?, Who or What does rule this civilization? Mankind seems to be a mistake, but nevemind, life learns more from mistakes than success...

[Lindsay]

Yes, some time before I was close to death, but somehow I knew that I was gonna survive, I feel a lot o pain when I watch the news, It seems nobody is aware that this is going to massive suicide, something big has to change, don`t you see?, Who or What does rule this civilization? Mankind seems to be a mistake, but nevemind, life learns more from mistakes than success...

Would be cool to begin your Self-Forgiveness and Self-Correction process in regards to the pain your experience when watching the news, and whatever else you experience within your day to day living here - within the realization that this is your creation, to thus then take responsibility for what is within/as yourself, and thus equally what is within/as this world - to ensure there is no more separation, but only directing each point - wherein you see 'something big has to change' and that is YOU. Also realizing that the 'who or what rules this civilization' is YOU - as you are the one that decides the rules to the game through your acceptances and allowances, and thus you are the one that decides to change the rules to the single RULE: what is best for all Life, as the measurement by which we calculate how to create a world that is able to flourish to its utmost potential. This is indeed how we support ourselves to transform so-called mistakes into opportunities to discover and realize ourselves.

When you are ready, suggest to open up a thread and begin writing here: Writing Yourself to Freedom

[Rozelle de Lange]

Cool Support Here!