Hey Shelly - welcome back to the forum, it's been awhile indeed.
Suggest to take a look at the Forum Guidelines
as some ways in which the forum operates and such have changed since you last participated.
Also would be cool for you to share more of yourself with us - such as how you found Desteni - would be especially cool to hear about what you've experienced over the last two years or so since you participated on the forums, what brought you back here? etc.
Cool to see you here again.