Cool Jin -- so it seems that the problem is you concerning, as you understand that there is nothing to do?Hi all,
I would like to keep a lot of the details of this post confidential but I will tell you what has been going on as I need your advice and hope that you will be open minded about people.
I am concerned about the safety of one of my friends. He is one of the nicest people I know. He is very smart, intelligent, helpful and generous. He has many religious qualifications and leads the prayers. He is actually quite young too. He however has gone to study abroad and he told me that where he studies, scholars and students are being killed non stop. I asked him how he was but he told me that where he is, is not the place to be. His institue has guards and detectors at every gate and he told me that in other institutes, the scholars are too afraid to come out and teach. Student get kidnapped and then killed.
He recently updated me on the situation and said that someone got shot outside of his institue.
There's nothing I can do. I was thinking parhaps he could get an early flight back but I don't know if that's possible. :(
You can't do anything Jin. You're not there, he is the one that is there who has to sort his situation out. As such what you CAN Do something about is how you are reacting, that's your point of responsibility. Make sense? So suggest to write the point out for yourself.Well I still don't know what to do. I have emailed him since and I am waiting for his response.
Yes exactly. Cool.Come to think of it, what you said does ring some bells and makes some sense. I don't know what you think about my posts but I know that EMS although the focus being on money, it is a system designed to better the quality of human life by being able to share lifes problems openly and get support or atleast suggestions about the issues or circumstances and a source of information.
Jin, my comments were not negative. I am simply sharing with you that the Desteni forum is about the Desteni material and the forum is created for us to come here to support ourselves based on the Desteni material. That's it. Whether you do that or not is up to you. So Jin, please understand that it is not that we or I want you to share any information for our sake - but for you to utilize the forum for self-support. Because that's what it is here for. As such, if you're taking what is being said personally this is something you can bring back to yourself and write about.I am not scared to share what is on my mind or how I feel. Only in cases where I may feel embarassed perhaps. But other than this, I am not afraid of your negative comments. Everything can been seen from different angles and everything I say has come from my current circumstances and feelings or personal experiences, experiences which you may not have experienced or to the same extent so therefore you may not be able to relate to them and hence criticize them.
It is certainly not suggested to share any background information that can compromise our practical situation. However we also can't be supported here on the forum if we don't share what is actually going on. So this is something one has to determine for oneself in self-honesty.Usually in a post, I don't share the background knowledge which is what you are unaware of so usually the critics don't leave anything.
Jin, as mentioned, it is not about us wanting something from you - it is about the purpose of the forum. You decide.I am not going to live in a closed box so say what you want.
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