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by Nick
24 Nov 2015, 22:38
Forum: Questions and Perspectives about Everyday Life Moments
Topic: Connecting with people
Replies: 12
Views: 1280

Re: Connecting with people

Basically you care to much about what others think of you. So you can't act naturally. I would advice, Don't learn tricks, behaviors, role's, positions, idea's about how you should be or act. But get in alignment with yourself and get comfortable enough with yourself till your confident enough to be...
by Nick
24 Nov 2015, 19:54
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Re-introduce Nick11
Replies: 3
Views: 820

Re: Re-introduce Nick11

Hi Barbara, Yes I did the DIP lite course. Haven't finished it all the way though due to not having access to internet for a year. Hi Gabrielle, Hmm I had a porn addiction and I needed support. I was looking over internet what could help me and I landed on the Destini forum. Tried a lot, a lot to ge...
by Nick
22 Nov 2015, 19:26
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Re-introduce Nick11
Replies: 3
Views: 820

Re-introduce Nick11

Hi, Ive been out of contact from this forum pretty long time. I have found more lessons in face to face contact with people around me and practical self discipline. Im interested in meeting myself. Meeting me through you so you can meet yourself through me. Im not talking about sex. I live in Oxford...
by Nick
18 Aug 2014, 10:56
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Introducing myself, Nick
Replies: 26
Views: 4622

Re: Introducing myself, Nick

Thank you! :)

Yes I feel the support and it is supportive. Thank you :)
by Nick
17 Aug 2014, 12:41
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Introducing myself, Nick
Replies: 26
Views: 4622

Re: Introducing myself, Nick

I cannot say where I am at. It must be 2 weeks ago since Ive watched porn. I try to not focuss on this subject and just do my spiritual practice. I cannot say am free from it. If I say this it would make the temptation bigger because my mind can trick me. It can say I am free so I can watch it again...
by Nick
15 Aug 2014, 20:28
Forum: Writing Yourself to Freedom
Topic: What do you all think about this?
Replies: 6
Views: 1709

Re: What do you all think about this?

Thank you Marles and Carrie

I understand this. A week ago when I red it I was confused and had a restless mind. I skimmed over your words. Now I red it with ease and I understand and see that this is what works.

Thanks
by Nick
15 Aug 2014, 20:06
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Introducing myself, Nick
Replies: 26
Views: 4622

Re: Introducing myself, Nick

I do not feel down when I have the urge to watch porn. The urge to watch porn makes me feel down because I know I will feel bad afterwards when I do it. When I have a lazy energy level I sometimes get the temptation. When I think I deserved it, or my mind makes me think I deserved it. definitely whe...
by Nick
06 Aug 2014, 20:00
Forum: Questions about Addictions
Topic: Be Practical When Quitting Porn
Replies: 13
Views: 6551

Re: Be Practical When Quitting Porn

I notices that most of the time when I fall back is when I am off my daily ritme/routine. So I have to be aware of the weekends and traveling or going out and thus to late to bed. At these moments I don't feel like having a fundament. My support/fundament is Daily routine gives stability Wake up whe...
by Nick
06 Aug 2014, 19:52
Forum: Introduce Yourself
Topic: Introducing myself, Nick
Replies: 26
Views: 4622

Re: Introducing myself, Nick

S: Cool Nick, so how will you, when a next time arrives that you feel the urge to watch porn and masturbate on it, prevent this from happening? Try to remind myself that this is my main priority in my life right now. That if I keep doing this I wont get any further. And going further is everything t...
by Nick
04 Aug 2014, 20:33
Forum: Questions about Addictions
Topic: Be Practical When Quitting Porn
Replies: 13
Views: 6551

Re: Be Practical When Quitting Porn

(copied from my thread - introducing myself, Nick) Something I found out these days is that I judge more that I thought. I judged myself for watching porn. I was like porn is bad and wrong. Yesterday I watched 3 short videos of porn. Then I stopped it and masturbated myself to get myself away from p...

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