Hey, this is Malin!

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Hey Malin. Thanks for sharing. Glad to read your story and I like your vids!

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Malin

when are you going to tell your story in details with photos?



and will you stand in the way of abuse if you must as we did for you?

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Bernard Poolman wrote:Malin

when are you going to tell your story in details with photos?



and will you stand in the way of abuse if you must as we did for you?
Bernard
Im starting this process in a couple of days - in detail-
that will, both help me to "let go", as well as to assist others.
I will also walk through it all again (from beginning) in where I assist and support with self-forgiveness on the past as how it all began/how it played out/how I stood up from it all.
abuse will not be accepted within this process since I am standing as an example so I realize that self-sabotage is simply unacceptable.
I will walk it through within videos and blogs - it will be a long process so I will walk it in "time-line" - meaning from beginning to end.
thanks B.

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Cool Malin, looking forwards reading/watching it

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Malin wrote:
Bernard Poolman wrote:Malin

when are you going to tell your story in details with photos?



and will you stand in the way of abuse if you must as we did for you?
Bernard
Im starting this process in a couple of days - in detail-
that will, both help me to "let go", as well as to assist others.
I will also walk through it all again (from beginning) in where I assist and support with self-forgiveness on the past as how it all began/how it played out/how I stood up from it all.
abuse will not be accepted within this process since I am standing as an example so I realize that self-sabotage is simply unacceptable.
I will walk it through within videos and blogs - it will be a long process so I will walk it in "time-line" - meaning from beginning to end.
thanks B.

Remember that you did not do this alone. There were beings willing to lose your agreement by stopping you from continued self abuse. Without them you would not have been able to stop. When you assist another, such agreement must be establish. such dedication must be established. The self abuser must agree that the support are llowed to intervene if necessary as the actions of self abuse is vested in a religion of self belief that the abuse has power over the abuser.

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Bernard Poolman wrote:
Malin wrote:
Bernard Poolman wrote:Malin

when are you going to tell your story in details with photos?



and will you stand in the way of abuse if you must as we did for you?
Bernard
Im starting this process in a couple of days - in detail-
that will, both help me to "let go", as well as to assist others.
I will also walk through it all again (from beginning) in where I assist and support with self-forgiveness on the past as how it all began/how it played out/how I stood up from it all.
abuse will not be accepted within this process since I am standing as an example so I realize that self-sabotage is simply unacceptable.
I will walk it through within videos and blogs - it will be a long process so I will walk it in "time-line" - meaning from beginning to end.
thanks B.

Remember that you did not do this alone. There were beings willing to lose your agreement by stopping you from continued self abuse. Without them you would not have been able to stop. When you assist another, such agreement must be establish. such dedication must be established. The self abuser must agree that the support are llowed to intervene if necessary as the actions of self abuse is vested in a religion of self belief that the abuse has power over the abuser.
That is understood B, I've done an introduction-video that I will upload on Monday - I will have to clarify that I didn't do this alone. I would have died without help so I have to emphasize that. I will walk the time-line in were I explain how I experienced myself around 6-8 years in my first video and then I walk it year by year in were I explain why my experiences led me to create anorexia (more detailed) and then eventually I will come to the age that I was in when I came across desteni and got the assistance and support that made me able to stop, so I will be explaining then on how and what help I got, makes sense? I will also walk it through in blog-posts sharing realizations and self-forgiveness-statements.
Sounds okay?

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Sounds cool to me Malin.

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Anorexia Almost Killed Me - Introduction
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N4ilNW-nVuo


This is my introduction video to my story of anorexia,
which will become a series of videos created as a timeline.
In this video interview I am shortly covering what it is that I will
be walking through and explaining in my upcoming interviews so
that you get perspective on what to expect.
I am going to share with you my story of how I grew up, from the age of 6,
what it was in my world and my reality that lead me to develop an eating disorder and how I
never got free even though I went to several different treatments and rehabilitation-centers.
I explain how my eating disorder started and how I experienced myself within that.
What can you do as a parent if your child suffers from an eating disorder?
And how can you prevent this from ever occurring?
Why don't the treatments work? What does work? How can you stop an eating disorder?
Can you be cured from an eating disorder? What helped me?

Through me, sharing my personal story of how I grew up you can get a better
perspective on what it is that leads a child to stop eating.
I am sharing what an eating disorder actually is and how it can manifest
in its most severe forms. What is it that leads a person to starve her/himself?

I will not sugarcoat or glorify what it actually is to suffer from anorexia/bulimia
- I will tell you the real brutal truth and all the details,
I will share with you what goes on in an anorexics mind,
what is the thought-patterns, what is the experiences,
why isn't it simply just to start eating again?
Does an eating disorder have anything to do with eating/food at all?
Why was it impossible for me to start eating?
Are people with eating disorders just spoiled brats?
How do the media influence a person with anorexia/bulimia?
Is this just a welfare-problem? I will be covering this and so much more in my upcoming videos.

I was unable to stop this on my own
- I would have been dead right now I wouldn't have received the help that I got from Desteni
and my agreement-partner. This is not something that a person can do/go through alone
- when anorexia/bulimia becomes a complete possession than it will lead the person to
slowly killing oneself and therefor major assistance and support is required.

I will dedicate my life to help others in the way that I got help so that we together can stop
the self-abuse and self-hate, to finally be able to start directing oneself
and start to live for the first time ever.

It's never too late - I was balancing on a fine line between death and life and just
when I was sure I was going to die I actually got help to stop and change.
I am still here today and with a lot of help from the participants in the Desteni-group
I have now stood up from hell. I will share my story unconditionally and if you
require more assistance/support - don't hesitate to contact me.

In my blog I will share specific self-forgiveness-statements in relation to what
it is that I am speaking about in each video interview,
so that you can get further support in what tools you can use to stop
the thought-patterns, behaviors and memories.
My Blog; http://malingunilla.blogspot.com/

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Very cool Malin - thanks for taking this on as a point of 'self supporting self supporting others'

Suggest that you open a specific thread for this in Writing Yourself to Freedom so it's more accessible to others when searching the forum.

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Yes, I suggest using the section
Organic Robot Discussions – Questions and Perspectives on the Mind and Self
wherein specific 'patterns' are taken on that many more face as well.

Cool perspectives here, Bernard - and Malin, sounds like a good start already. Thanks for sharing.

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