Hi Anthony, welcome to the forum - here we use our real names, therefore, is it cool if I change your username to Anthony, or Anthony Mario Sisto, or Anthony MS? or whatever works for you in relation to this - lemme know.
p.s. - yes, as Abdul stated, Desteni is not a belief system. Thus, suggest you simply start investigating/studying the vast amount of material that relays this point, as well as investigate/study yourself in order to make this absolutely clear.