Hi Tina, welcome to the forum.
Glad you found this forum which is certainly for self-support which means here we work with particular tools such as Self-Forgiveness, Self-Honesty and Writing as a way to start looking at how we can take responsibility for the problems/conflicts we are facing in our lives, which are after all, our creation too.
Therefore, we have basic principles that are very much aligned to the ones that Jesus said: do onto others as you would like to be done onto, love your neighbor as yourself which are all aiming at the ability to recognize each other as equals - but for that, there is a process at an individual level that is required, and that's what we focus on here at Desteni, the process of Self-Honesty, learning how to apply Self-Forgiveness so that you can learn how to Live self-forgiveness which is living a process of correcting all aspects of yourself that you see are not being supportive for you or others around you, so that's you taking responsibility for yourself, your life, your thoughts, your behavior, your relationships with others.
I suggest that if you want to begin with the basics, learning how these tools of self support I mentioned, you sign up for the Free online course we've designed precisely to try out and walk the basics in an interactive manner, so this is the website http://lite.desteniiprocess.com/
Let us know if you have already watched/read some blogs or Desteni material and if you have any specific questions about it too.