Not allowing self to be comfortable with another person sharing their experiences with you is showing to self that self is uncomfortable in intimate conversations as well as uncomfortable with the experiences that are being shared. This discomfort comes from how self has judged these experiences and has attempted to separate self from these experiences which then as a diversion tactic self uses ‘reciprocation’ as a means of ‘dealing’ with the discomfort of the situation. Here it is to realise that self had separated self from these experiences which one can only regain self responsibility through self forgiveness and self corrective application by allowing self to see oneself as experiencing these experiences and standing up from within oneself by seeing how one can effectively direct these experiences as oneself.I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel awkward and not know what to do/reply, whenever someone is sharing their personal data with me,and within this I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel obliged to help the person with advice, whenever they share their personal data with me. Within this I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel obliged to reciprocate by sharing some personal data of my own in order to create equilibrium between us, instead of realising and understanding that I am participating within a mind polarity construct, where I will feel inferior and less than, if I cannot think of a way to help the person, and I will feel superior and more than, if I perceive to be able to help the person with sharing advice or my own personal data with them.
Here you are showing the design of one’s discomfort. It starts with a judgement of the person where self see’s the other person as ‘less than or lost’, which thereafter the belief of ‘creating an equilibrium between us’ kicks in whereby self then feel obliged to share of oneself with the other person. None of this is though self directive or standing up within oneself as one is moving from judgement to belief, ‘reacting’ to the situation in a pre-programmed manner. The key here thus is to stop the judgment within oneself and allow oneself to stand one and equal to the situation / experience that is being shared and see for and as oneself how self can take self responsibility for and as such an event happens with oneself. Within this one is standing one and equal to the experience / event being shared and self has taken self responsibility and directed the point as and of oneself.I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear not being able to help someone that is sharing their personal problems with me, and within this I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to want/need/desire to reciprocate by sharing personal problems of my own, in order to create equilibrium between us and not make the person feel bad for sharing something within which I perceive that they feel inferior and less than and lost.
Turning the point back to self here is cool in that you are able to see that when another person is sharing their information with you they are actually desiring you to direct the point for them. You have also realised within this by turning the point back to self that no-one CAN direct a situation on your behalf, another person can only show you another way – but you have to still direct the point for and as yourself.I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to want/need/desire to share my personal problems with other people and within that hope that they can help, support and assist me, instead of realising and understanding that I am abdicating my own self-responsibility and transferring it onto others and the system.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to share my personal problems with other people in order to get direction from them as to what I am supposed to do to solve my problem, instead of realising and understanding that I am abdicating my self-responsibility onto them by sharing my problems with them and resonantly looking for their advice and direction.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to hope/want/need/desire for other people to fix my problems, instead of realising and understanding that with this behaviour I have manifested the situation that I am in today, because there is no one else that is and can be responsible for my life decisions and choices but me.
Cool – Here you have seen that when someone else directs a point on your behalf you feel inferior to them, thus turning the tables – when you direct a point for another person you may feel superior for a moment – but the other person will feel inferior which will create a rift in your relationship to that person. So realise – When sharing information with another person, you are unconditionally sharing and seeing what feedback you receive, this feedback you are able to utilise and incorporate into allowing yourself to make a more informed decision within your world.When and as I see myself looking for solutions within other people by wanting to share my personal data/problems with them, I stop and I breathe. I realise and understand that I am participating within an automated mind polarity construct, within which I will abdicate my self-responsibility by wanting others to help me solve my problems/solve my problems, and will abdicate my self-direction and self-responsibility to HOPE that they will be able to do so, and will feel inferior to them and be thankful to them and feel indebted to them, and on the flip side I will feel superior and more than to people whom I perceive to have helped with their problems. Therefore I release the trigger point of wanting to share my personal data and problems with other people with self-forgiveness and direct myself in breath towards solving my own problems within full awareness of my self-responsibility.
Cool – You are looking at taking self responsibility here – Though you also have to understand that we as humans are interdependent – It is thus an act of personal self responsibility to cross reference information within one’s environment with others where one accepts support through communication with others. This is a process of developing one’s network of interrelatedness with others where one can check and cross reference one’s information with others, but within this still take in the position of absolute self responsibility to and towards oneself and others.I commit myself to through writing, self-forgiveness and self-corrective application stop and remove any and all points of desiring for other people to help me and solve my problems, and stop wanting to share my personal data/problems with them in hopes of them solving my problems, because I realise and understand that this sort of behaviour has manifested the global system of abdication of responsibility as it is today, hence the manifestation of politicians and authority that are 'called' to be the problems solvers for other people, instead of everyone directing themselves towards sorting out and solving their/our problems.
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