just like lately again, it has often been witnessed that HATERS will lurk around for things/points they can pick-up/pick-out from another's blogs or vlogs to try and harm another, to try and 'prove' their point (of why it is 'justified' to be a desteni hater) and 'win' with their opinion/judgment about OTHERS.
when i recall my time in kindergarten and primary school, we had such kids around: they were always in the outlook for something about ANOTHER that they can take and twist around enough to ridicule/diminish the OTHER. this made them feel 'more' powerful in themselves, it would boost their ego and make them HAPPY (!) - trigger-happy.
this is a SADISTIC trait - the bully, the hater, the kind of people going to unspoken lengths to make OTHERS seem inferior so through this polarity they can apparently 'elevate' themselves as 'superior' - (not unlike what criminal analysis units call SOCIOPATHS) - and this is where it is obvious that such tactics, such power-games can only stem from an accepted, denied or suppressed 'inferiority' of self.
it is against oneself one is actually fighting - against the accepted/allowed/adopted self-definitions according to which one is not 'good enough', according to which one's worth is measured against the worth of another, and that only worth diminishing another one can 'elevate' oneself to acceptable value (!).
this is SICK. and yet if we look around, within and without, this is what our relationships in this world are based on, both in the smaller and the bigger scale. if we investigate how VALUE is defined and what self-worth is in this world, the truth we find is disturbing.
Desteni can only be perceived as a threat if/when one is holding onto one's own beliefs and self-definitions to such an extent that the loss thereof creates a FEAR that takes over completely, so much so that anything that's 'threatening' to make one FACE that FEAR and that LOSS: is perceived as posing a threat and thus being 'dangerous'.
yes, Desteni is dangerous to fear. Desteni is dangerous to anything of polarity - and that is why we are here, sharing, exposing; ourselves AND this world; applying and urging others to apply the STOPPING of polarity/polarization, the STOPPING of denial/suppression, the STOPPING of separation; to STAND-UP as life in self-directive principle and Stop all fear, because in essence FEAR is MIND-CONTROL.
and so it is that while LIFE is all-inclusive, there is those that exclude themselves from life and exist inFear while they (attempt to) project a 'superior' image, as if it were possible to be 'more than life'.
it is not.
"one is either equal, or one is less than life" -
the value of Life is Life
and therefore LIFE is the highest value, the holy/wholly of existence, and that which we all have in common: we all breathe the same air.
It is suggested that personal blogs be done privately on the Private Forum or the Destonian Forum.
It is unnecessary to expose oneself in a way that would invite abuse - the Haters are like vampires that are out for blood, ready to steal your breath. The point of exposure is simply to See Self; 'exposure' is always self-exposure - in self-honesty it can never be about 'others'. Exposure is purely for the purposes of understanding the patterns at play so as to see things for what they are and through this take back self-directive principle and bring forth self-willed change.
If you have personal matters you are busy working through and are serious about facing yourself in self-responsibility, ask for a Buddy to support you. On this see also Guidelines for Forum-Buddy relationships
further perspective on 'Haters' and the AntiHate campaign:
Of Power and Illusion - Where is Life?
http://forum.desteni.org/viewtopic.php? ... =3235#p853