We’ve explained in the Masturbation and Sex Series on EQAFE
, especially the Interview Why Masturbation
that: throughout our History in Human Civilization, generation after generation – we have ‘conditioned’ the Physical Body to express within/through Sex and Masturbation. Thus, our ‘expression’ was limited to Sex/Masturbation/Relationships – more than into/as actual Living / Self development/enhacement. For more perspective/understand with regards to what we mean with ‘expression’, what is ‘expression’ and how it was limited/enslaved to Sex/Masturbation/Relationships and the consequences thereof – we suggest investing in the Interview Why Masturbation
With this, one have to see, realise and understand that: dependent on one’s History with Masturbation, for example and the ‘dependency’ one had created in relationship to that, with regards to especially Porn/Imagination/Fantasy where one utilized the Mind, essentially, to through Masturbation and the Porn/Imagination/Fantasies within that: to Release accumulated Mind-Energies in the Physical Body that will contribute to the ‘Energy/Mind Orgasm’ one experience within/during Masturbation – that, if this was done – what will additionally contribute to the Experience of Blue-Balls in actually quantifying its process to manifest it faster – is the energies you physically/unconsciously accumulated in the Mind. And now, with one not releasing those energies through the means that one had with Masturbation and Porn/Imagination/Fantasies – it accumulate faster and so contribute faster to the manifestation of Blue Balls.
Blue Balls in itself, is also a Pure Physical Manifestation. As one will hear in this Interview Why Masturbation
- Sex/Masturbation has become SO much part of the Physical, that it ‘is Physical’ – however, we’ve consequentially fucked with ourselves and our relationship to the Body even more with introducing Masturbation to Porn/Imagination/Fantasy, so it becomes more Mind-Sex/Masturbation with our own Minds, than actual, real Physical, Equal and One Self Expression.
Therefore, we suggest – with Walking the Masturbation and Sex Series, we give Practical Step by Step support/assistance of How to return to the NATURAL Physical Expression within and through Masturbation and Sex WITHOUT using the Mind and Energy, through Porn/Imagination/Fantasy. By returning to the Natural Self Expression, will also assist/support with one’s Natural Living Expression in the Physical, that expression no more ONLY be conditioned to Sex/Masturbation, but who you are in your Relationship to every moment of Breath Living/Participation/Directive Principle in/as this world/reality.
Thus, a point to consider when/as Stopping Masturbation for 21 Days – if you’ve had a long History with Masturbation, and the Porn/Imagination/Fantasies within that, you have to Realise that – you’ve throughout time, mentally/physically layered and imprinted into/as your Physical Body, this relationship between your Mind and Masturbation. So, it’s not just ‘going to go away’ with ‘stopping Masturbation’. The practical function of the 21 Days is to prove/show to yourself, that: with a DECISION – you can stop Participation within/as it. With this, once the 21 Days is complete, you’re going to have to Practise Standing with this Decision, EVERY time you Masturbate - make the Decision, and practise the process of using breathing, and moving your awareness from the mind-participation into and as actual physical touch/movement/expression Only. So, it’s going to be a Process, this is Important to Remember – as you have every time you Masturbated, ‘validated’ this Personality in relationship to Masturbation and now you’re ‘reinstructing’ the relationship between you and the Body.
With this, Sexual Dreams when stopping Masturbation for 21 Days – see, for the Mind, whether you do things Physically/in the Mind – is similar/to the same. The only difference is, when things are done ONLY in the Mind, it can resource less Energy from the Physical, whereas if you do it in the Physical, it has access to more Physicality to resource energy from/of. Thus, if you don’t physically direct the Masturbation through Porn/Imagination/Fantasy – the Mind will take its own Directive Principle and Manifest it into and as Dreams.
How to work with Dreams is: Investigate WHAT Specifically it is within the Dream that made you react Sexually – as the Dreams will be an accumulation of Sex/Masturbation ‘data’ that you collected throughout your life to manifest your Imagination/Fantasy domain for you to become ‘sexually aroused’ by Images/Pictures/Scenes – instead of it being a mere decision with the Physical Body to Express together within/as Sex/Masturbation. Thus, once you Identified, within the Dream, what it is Exactly that you ‘responded’ to – you can align the Self Forgiveness process in such a way for Forgiving yourself for accepting/allowing yourself to connected/define your Expression to/as such images/pictures and/or limit it to such specific images/pictures/scenes and to commit to practise re-aligning your relationship with the Physical Body that expression becomes a Decision, a pure self movement with the Physical Body.
So, if/as one within/during the 21 Days have blue balls and/or one feel it even starting to manifest towards that – by all means, Masturbate, BUT – practise moving the participation from Mind to Physical Expression. And from that moment, dedicate / discipline yourself to do the same every time you Masturbate. And then if/as you have Sexual Dreams – utilize the data/information in a Process of writing/self forgiveness to release your self-definition relationship from Mind Sex/Masturbation, into and as equal and one expression with the Physical.