I am really not tryting to justify rants or disempowering statements. But I am not sure that I fully understand what really is meant by "disempowering" and thus I would really like to better understand "what is best for all" in your opinion. I am struggling with this and keep getting confused by it.
What you are sharing here is actually pretty cool, because this is actually quite an essential point to acknowledge, that = We don't know what's best for all.
What we are living today and how events are playing in the world - are showcasing us in extreme, troublesome ways that we don't know what's best for all, and that we haven't known what is best for all -- which has been accumulating throughout history to where we are at today, growing more grotesque as time goes by.
So within acknowledging that 'we don't know what's best for all', we open a door of humbleness, one where we can drop all preconceived sense of 'knowing' and allow ourselves to learn through experiences, through our daily application and adjust/re-align ourselves according to the feedback we receive from ourselves and our environment.
So this is a good point to keep in mind, that you DON'T know what's best for all, and that whatever we have been doing and are currently doing = is definitely not the answer - as our inner realities and outer realities clearly showcase to us.
Understanding and Living what is 'Best for All' is as much the Starting Point of your process as it is your Destination.
Only at the end of the road, will we truly understand, grasp, realise and Live 'What is Best for All' in the most absolute sense, including every single aspect of reality.
So how do we move from 'not knowing what is best for all' to 'knowing what is best for all'?
Our reality consists literally of a 'universe of aspects', so many things to question and consider - who am I in relation to each one of these aspects? What would be best for all in relation to each aspect?
So we start with those aspects which are immediately accessible and present to ourselves, as our inner world in the form of Thougts - Feelings/Emotions - Backchat - and the Unconscious as physical behaviour and presence. Then we take it a step further from our inner reality to our personal reality relating to our words and deeds and relationships with others, how we participate in our reality/environment.
Everything which exists in this world is a direct reflection of our inner realities as that which we accept and allow within ourselves, is what we 'hand out', manifest, shape and create in our outer world. So by investigating all the aspects which exist within us, we inevitably tackle all the aspects which are manifested outside of us.
So you take a singular thought, and you check - is the content of this thought best for all? If I act out this thought within myself, what does it create? How does it ripple out into my reality? What are its implications and consequences? Can I stand by this thought and all it encompasses as its consequences? Or do I change the thought to a new, constructive pattern, which supports me?
Then, when you change it - you check: Does it stand the test of time? Do I need to adjust anything else?
And so aspect by aspect, thought by thought, feeling by feeling, emotion by emotion - you establish 'who you are' in relation to that particular manifestation inside yourself. Do I accept and allow it - or do I change it? Once you change it and you have over time established that its outflows are supportive for yourself - now you have established 'what is best for all' in relation to this one single aspect. And so you work aspect, by aspect, gathering pieces of the puzzle until you have accumulated 'who you are' and 'what is best for all' in relation to ALL aspects of yourself -- and so end up knowing 'what is Best for All' in every single sense, and absolute way.
In terms of 'disempowerment', have a look at a thought pattern or emotion/feeling which is currently prominent in your life and write out your experience with it - then we can use this as a practical example to walk and establish what 'disempowerment' means as well as what 'empowerment' would mean.
If anything is still unclear in relation to 'Best for All', let us know