I am going to share my last thoughts on this topic.
Desteni message is not about desteni itself, but about the mind, and oneself. It's up to each one what each one does with that, since we are all responsable for ourselves. There is nothing and anyone else to blame. Thought my journey, I have had problems hearing the desteni message. Why? Because we humans see what we want to see. Sometimes I felt like I was driving into something unknown for me, but yet familiar for myself. I could deny many things, but the effect stopping my mind had in me I could not. I just felt more young, there was more of myself everywhere. But for me arriving here is not an easy journey, it's not a journey of self-forgiveness. Rather the journey of a space ship that runs out of fuel and eventually crashes. It's not beautiful. But I mean, who decides what is beautiful in this life? You do, in self-honesty. So it is entirely up to you. I just suggest what I have always have the intuition of. When there are certain words that you just instintivaley reject, or words that simply make you react very hard. Or places within yourself that you don't allow yourself to look at, and then you make stories to cover them up. What I mean is, when there is a sign which tells you oh you can look for the truth anywhere but here, then that is certainly a sign of warning for oneself, not to discover the truth or the lie, but to simply discover oneself in who one really is and exist as, I just don't accept limitations, wether they are beautiful or ugly.
These are my last words on this topic and my honest conclusion about the tools I have learnt for Desteny and what I have done with them, cya!