My questions

Ask questions related to your individual process or life in the experience of yourself and mind - pertaining to thoughts, emotions, feelings, behaviours, habits etc. This thread is dedicated to those who'd like to understand more about the inner-workings of your own mind and then effects of this on your life and relationships.
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frank
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Re: My questions

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6: Breathe

Is that necessary to be always aware of your breath or you just need to feel your breath in certain situations like you feel stressful?



Gabriel
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Re: My questions

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frank wrote:
26 Feb 2020, 04:10
hi there,

I have more questions:

1: Reincarnation

If you transcend something this life, you reincarnate, does that mean you are going to go through the whole systems all over again?

2: Masturbation

There's someone in my Desteni chat group said that, although masturbation creates consequences, if you suddenly stop it, will cause problems, and masturbation can actually heal the body, you don't need to be too harsh on yourself, some animals are actually masturbate. So is that necessary to stop masturbation with pictures? I've stopped masturbation for a long time, I just want to know if it's a must.

3: Mind system

Does everyone need to transcend both side of the system? In my life I always shift from my father side to my mother side and again to my father side. Or you just need to transcend one side so the other will be fine?

Since one day, I can always see my nationalities in mind. Is that normal for people to see them or they are just mind units?

In terms of masturbation: I stopped for many months in the beginning of my process and it assisted me with addressing points in my mind that I was otherwise supressing through masturbation. It is cool to simply walk 'without' masturbation for a prolongued time because that definately creates a change within your relationship with your body and mind. Hence is is then a point to support yourself with : it gives you more space within yourself to more effectively address mind patterns. Thus, if you are 'able' to stop there is no reason why it should be 'harmful'. It is entirely up to you to assess this.

Then, when and as you reach more stability within yourself, you can reassess your relationship with masturbation and see if you can turn masturbation into something that supports your body and assists you with developing self-expression. I recommend to really study the series on EQAFE about masturbation in order to gain further perspective.



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Re: My questions

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Hi again Frank

You have many questions ! That is ok. I did not see them before now.
You did not answer my question though.
Are you on facebook ? Can we find somewhere to chat ? Because I think it would be best for us to have a chat in some chat function in order for me to support you. So - are you on any chat functions ? Can we meet for a chat ?

I will how ever try to answer your questions here

6. Breathe. It is up to you to find a balance a healthy and rythemic (?) way of breathing that can stabilize and ground you in your body and your being. Breathe stops the mind from thinking - so know your breathe.

5: What you eat is up to you. we at desteni point at the system level of how animals are being abused. About reincarnation, reincarnation has ended as function. This stopped completely between 1998 - 2006 : when the old heaven existence was emptied out and the white light construct was brought down/deleted.

4. Personalities (and/with thoughts) are the polarity constructs of your mind that keep you occupied in mind. You want to be in body and being - so use breathe.

3. Mind systems: This is complex but the short version is that you are divided in left and right side of body. The right side stands for the structure, the father, the outside world. While the left side is the expression, the mother, the inner world. So again use breathe to ground self - and write out the constructs that you see/find within & without - we can chat on this if you find a chat service that you normally use.

2. Masturbation. The big idea is to develop a healthy sexual expression and intimacy with yourself. This can take time if you have been addicted to porn. To find a healthy way to masturbate - to honor your body - that does NOT include pictures on a screen OR pictures in the head/mind.

When you schizophrenia goes active - breathe - ground yourself in the physical. Forgive the reactions and emotions within. Breathe - take a walk, a cold shower, or a rest. Write out the whole thing after & forgive the self.

If you want to know what caused the schizophrenia - you have this link : https://eqafe.com/p/interview-request-schizophrenia

I have listened to this interview 10 times or more. I suggest you do the same (over time)

Healing from schizophrenia can only come from you Frank TOGETHER with cooperation with doctor and health care, holistic healthy living, exercise and the tools we present. Slowing down, Breathing, Writing, Self Forgiveness, Self Correction and Living Words.


Here is my latest facebook post :

schizophrenia is basically when there are 2 or 3 personalities - with different personality platforms / operation systems - that at once try to be in charge of the self. this balance and often straight forward war in ones head (between self as different personalities) is then experienced as voices in the head, pain, paranoia, concerning thoughts, deep emotions, and a life in suffering depression within the confinement of ones mind(s) and thought box - feeling left out and deprived like we all often do.

there can also develop new mind units as the mind would project itself - like a cancer cell - into new minds, from the personality platforms and complex systems of emotions and trauma also here lots inherent from parents and including systems such as reincarnation from the beyond - for the mind into new personalities and new difficult systems to handle for the being.

often one would need a variety of helping systems, therapies and assistance to deal with schizophrenia.


Take care Frank - breathe



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Re: My questions

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Hi again Frank

I do want to change a part of my message to you.
We do not have to chat on other platforms - it is not needed - meaning we can chat/discuss/communicate here on open forum
For you to have the best most secure support overall.

If you have questions of anything - feel free to ask


regards: Tormod



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Re: My questions

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tormod wrote:
02 Mar 2020, 12:14
Hi again Frank

You have many questions ! That is ok. I did not see them before now.
You did not answer my question though.
Are you on facebook ? Can we find somewhere to chat ? Because I think it would be best for us to have a chat in some chat function in order for me to support you. So - are you on any chat functions ? Can we meet for a chat ?

I will how ever try to answer your questions here

6. Breathe. It is up to you to find a balance a healthy and rythemic (?) way of breathing that can stabilize and ground you in your body and your being. Breathe stops the mind from thinking - so know your breathe.

5: What you eat is up to you. we at desteni point at the system level of how animals are being abused. About reincarnation, reincarnation has ended as function. This stopped completely between 1998 - 2006 : when the old heaven existence was emptied out and the white light construct was brought down/deleted.

4. Personalities (and/with thoughts) are the polarity constructs of your mind that keep you occupied in mind. You want to be in body and being - so use breathe.

3. Mind systems: This is complex but the short version is that you are divided in left and right side of body. The right side stands for the structure, the father, the outside world. While the left side is the expression, the mother, the inner world. So again use breathe to ground self - and write out the constructs that you see/find within & without - we can chat on this if you find a chat service that you normally use.

2. Masturbation. The big idea is to develop a healthy sexual expression and intimacy with yourself. This can take time if you have been addicted to porn. To find a healthy way to masturbate - to honor your body - that does NOT include pictures on a screen OR pictures in the head/mind.

When you schizophrenia goes active - breathe - ground yourself in the physical. Forgive the reactions and emotions within. Breathe - take a walk, a cold shower, or a rest. Write out the whole thing after & forgive the self.

If you want to know what caused the schizophrenia - you have this link : https://eqafe.com/p/interview-request-schizophrenia

I have listened to this interview 10 times or more. I suggest you do the same (over time)

Healing from schizophrenia can only come from you Frank TOGETHER with cooperation with doctor and health care, holistic healthy living, exercise and the tools we present. Slowing down, Breathing, Writing, Self Forgiveness, Self Correction and Living Words.


Here is my latest facebook post :

schizophrenia is basically when there are 2 or 3 personalities - with different personality platforms / operation systems - that at once try to be in charge of the self. this balance and often straight forward war in ones head (between self as different personalities) is then experienced as voices in the head, pain, paranoia, concerning thoughts, deep emotions, and a life in suffering depression within the confinement of ones mind(s) and thought box - feeling left out and deprived like we all often do.

there can also develop new mind units as the mind would project itself - like a cancer cell - into new minds, from the personality platforms and complex systems of emotions and trauma also here lots inherent from parents and including systems such as reincarnation from the beyond - for the mind into new personalities and new difficult systems to handle for the being.

often one would need a variety of helping systems, therapies and assistance to deal with schizophrenia.


Take care Frank - breathe
Tormod,

Facebook in my region is blocked, I can only access it through VPN which is not very convenient.

I also have OCD. sometimes I just want to recheck stuffs which is unnecessary. Should I ignore voices in the head and herewith do forgiveness?

I still don't quite understand differences of thought, backchat and persona. How do I identify them when they come up?



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Re: My questions

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Hi Frank

When voices come - best to ground yourself - breathe - focus on something physical like a tree or a rock. Lay down if you need. Perhaps close eyes. Breathe. Forgive the voices - and their origin- the memory from where they come. Forgive the addiction to the memory & the energies involved.
Perhaps a cold shower ? A daily walk in nature is one of my favorites.

Thoughts, and backchats and personalities are very much connected and much of the same. They all mostly origin from memories - and energies and believes in relation to this memory. Thoughts mostly have a personality from where they origin. Also with backchats. Personalities are (to me) like pin needles with a positive (up) and a negative (down) - polarity. A polarity is to me the core of a personality.

To understand more of the basics - there is a series for basics on eqafe : https://eqafe.com/series/64-back-to-basics

I would also warmly recommend to start to read this blog: http://heavensjourneytolife.blogspot.co ... eline.html


This interview will tell you lots of schizophrenia: https://eqafe.com/p/interview-request-schizophrenia
There is also recordings on OCD on eqafe

If you can not afford it - I would be happy to gift it to you. But then I need your email address. If you could share your email that would be great - IF you would like the gift.

I hope this was clarifying

Let me know if you have more questions



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Re: My questions

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tormod wrote:
08 Mar 2020, 11:53
Hi Frank

When voices come - best to ground yourself - breathe - focus on something physical like a tree or a rock. Lay down if you need. Perhaps close eyes. Breathe. Forgive the voices - and their origin- the memory from where they come. Forgive the addiction to the memory & the energies involved.
Perhaps a cold shower ? A daily walk in nature is one of my favorites.

Thoughts, and backchats and personalities are very much connected and much of the same. They all mostly origin from memories - and energies and believes in relation to this memory. Thoughts mostly have a personality from where they origin. Also with backchats. Personalities are (to me) like pin needles with a positive (up) and a negative (down) - polarity. A polarity is to me the core of a personality.

To understand more of the basics - there is a series for basics on eqafe : https://eqafe.com/series/64-back-to-basics

I would also warmly recommend to start to read this blog: http://heavensjourneytolife.blogspot.co ... eline.html


This interview will tell you lots of schizophrenia: https://eqafe.com/p/interview-request-schizophrenia
There is also recordings on OCD on eqafe

If you can not afford it - I would be happy to gift it to you. But then I need your email address. If you could share your email that would be great - IF you would like the gift.

I hope this was clarifying

Let me know if you have more questions
Hi,

is gifting to me could cost your extra money? I didn't quite understand why when I tried to register, there's an option for Eqafe unlimited plan. Is this a compulsory?



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Re: My questions

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Hi Frank

For me to gift you from eqafe - yes that would mean me spending money

The unlimited plan is an alternative - that I would recommend - eqafe is the ultimate library.
- but you can also chose to buy products at your own selection. So the unlimited plan is an option - not compulsory- as far as I know



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Re: My questions

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Hi,

You can gift it to me, thanks. my email address: [email protected]

I haven't figured out yet how to create an Eqafe account without unlimited plan. I will find a way to pay you though.



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Re: My questions

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I just now sent you some recordings from eqafe.
Can you confrim that they are with you ?
Do they function well ?

Consider it a gift and that you do not have to pay me back.
Rather I would want you to spend the money on other products from eqafe and to support desteni & equal life foundation

I will see if Cerise can answer your question on how to use eqafe - without the unlimited plan

enjoy the recordings !



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