Starting self forgiveness

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Christopher
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When relationship break.

Postby Christopher » 04 Aug 2019, 04:02

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to resentment to my ex girlfriend when i see that she found another boyfriend, without realize that resenetment is a product of havent accepted that she remake her life without me, because in moments i believed that her life depends of me.

I forgive myself that havent accepted and allowed myself to let go my ex partner because i felt good when she depended emotionally for me.

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to resistance to let go my ex partner.

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to feel superior to my partner when i see that she depends of me because i believed that my work of man is to make to my partner depend of me.

When i see that i am in cycles of resentment and contempt to my ex patner, i stop and breathe, i realize that resentment is unnecesary because i am focusing in her life and this prevent that i see for solution and correct my life and her life.

I commit myself to take actions for remake my life and allow that my ex girlfriend remake her life.

I realize that when i close the cycle of contempt and resentment to my ex partner, i go to search for another relationship to try cover the space that stay after breaking off.

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to feel empty after the breaking with my ex partner because i allowed to emotional dependency to my ex partner and i believed that after this there was nothing else.

When i see that i am empty or feel of that i need something else, i stop and breathe, i realize that is unnecesary to participate in past cycles of relationships for correct my life.

I commit myself to value myself and my enviorment.

I commit myself to support myself in expand my habilities and use my time to produce.

I commit myself to live and let live to others.



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Re: Over and over again.

Postby Christopher » 05 Aug 2019, 21:26

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to complaint myself when i repeat the same cycles over and over again to have allowed myself to think that is unnecesary for myself.

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to participate in my wishes and impulses.

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to take decisions and actions from the energy point.

When i see that i am complaining to my mind and life experiences, i stop and breathe, i realize that is necesary to see my mind cicles and life cycles for understand how i function and avoid this repeat in my future.

I commit myself to see in detail my mind and life cycles for dont repeat the same patterns in my future.

I realized that the cycle of relationship was impact my life in my laboral performance, i used a lot my mind in think in forget or supress this and i dont



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Re: Starting self forgiveness

Postby Christopher » 08 Aug 2019, 15:24

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to disinterest to myself to have allowed prefered stay in my confort zone because i thinked that is the best for me, and i define this how a positive energetic experience.

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to create a mind energetic positive experience withit self forgiveness and write to have allowed believe that the solution comes magicly after the self forgiveness and write and within this i created a hope and separation from myself.

I forgive myself that have`nt accepted and allowed that i am capable of resolve my emotionals and life problems without need beleves and hopes.

I forgive myself that have'nt accepted and allowed myself to hear and read others to have allowed to believe that i know and understand everything and within this i feeded my ego of look at all below of me and within this i dont allowed connect with perspectives and experiences of others.

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed to define how bored read and hear the experiences of others to havent allowed myself to connect with others.

When i see that i am resist to hear, read and share with others, i stop and breathe, i realize that believe, think that i know and understand everything is a limitant that prevents my expansion.

When i see that i am believing the solutions for my problems and life experiences comes magicly, i stop and breathe, i realize that i must be capable of look for solutions for support myself and others.

When i see that i am in my confort zone without take actions for what is best for all, i stop and breathe, i realize that i am mechanizing my lifestyle and that have consequences within my process of self creation.

I commit myself to be stable and be consistent with my actions and thoughts.



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Lossing a relationship

Postby Christopher » 09 Aug 2019, 06:47

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to pain, anguish, regreet and guilt when i loss a relationship of love to have allowed lost myself in emotions and feelings for she.

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to feel looser and inferior in moment that i loss a relationship to have allowed myself define my life experiencies around the relationships, sucess and failure.

When i see that i am in guilt, regreet, pain and anguish for loss a relatiomship, i stop and breathe, i realize that guilt, anguish, regreet are unnecesary in this context, because i dont see others solutions that support myself and understand how be stable individually.

When i see that i feel inferior or looser in when i loss a relationship, i stop and breathe i realize that have experiences around the sucess or failure within relationships is unnecesary because i havent allowed myself to see how created emotions and feelings over X person that i meet and this determinates the consequence in my relation for X person in positive and negative polarities.

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself determinate my relationships for my emotions and feelings because i dont understand that emotions and feelings within relationships are unnecesary.

When i see that i am participating in emotions and feelings for x person, i stop and breathe, i realize that the emotions and feelings are unnecesary in relationships because they are variables and unsettled.

I commit myself to be stable individually and look for solutions for support myself for be emotionally stable.

I commit myself to dont participate in my emotions and feelings and write my mind experiences.



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Rejecting to be support by others.

Postby Christopher » 11 Aug 2019, 06:54

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to reject, resist and deny the support of others to have allowed believe that this experience affects my pride, without understand that pride is a excess of self stimation that i used for make me believe that i am correct, that i dont need orientation because i believed that i am correct.

I realize that the believe that i am correct is the first self dishonesty because i limitated myself for see myself in self honesty.

When i see that i am react when others try to support me, i stop and breathe, i realize that pride is a limitant for self develop because i dont saw myself how a problem and therfore if i don't see the problem i don't look for solution.

I commit myself to stop pride and work with myself for see how i am and give the opportunity of change myself.

I commit myself to learn to be support by others and understand that this experience is a form of share.



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Re: Starting self forgiveness

Postby Kristina » 11 Aug 2019, 17:50

Hi Christopher,

Really great to see you and your self-forgiveness here - thanks for sharing and opening up yourself, and taking responsibilities for these points!



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Re: Starting self forgiveness

Postby Christopher » 13 Aug 2019, 04:06

Hi Christopher,

Really great to see you and your self-forgiveness here - thanks for sharing and opening up yourself, and taking responsibilities for these points!
is nothing, the truth is that i have to be very aware of any movement in my head :lol:



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Re: Starting self forgiveness

Postby Christopher » 13 Aug 2019, 05:20

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to react agresively when my parents give me orientation to have allowed myself believe i have reason, i can not be wrong, that i am not need to change, i know everything.

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to manipulate and decieve my parents when they give orientation to me but i decided dont hear and considerate their because i inconsciously know that isnt convenient for me to have allowed myself to dont see my resistances for change.

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to use reactions, manipulations and decieves how method of prevent that my parents give me orientations and guides for live.

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to mocked to my parents when they gives me orientation and guides for live to have allowed myself to think that is unnecesary for me within my idea of i cannot be wrong.

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to feel annoying when my parents gives me orientation because i have an idea of myself of knowing everyting and i cannot be wrong.

When i see that i am reacting to orientation of my parents, i stop and breathe, i realize that is unnecesary to defend my old behaviors, is a limitant that prevent my develop and growness.

I commit myself to accept the orientations from my parents in common sense.

I commit myself to leave my old behaviors, resistances moving physically and stop mind abuse and projections and wishes.



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Conflitcts.

Postby Christopher » 14 Aug 2019, 05:09

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed to throw in the face of my partner what i did for her in moments of conflict and disagree to have allowed myself to try resolve this points trought manipulation, reactions and acomodate myself until have the reason.

I fogive myself that accepted and allowed myself to use the money to manipulate my partner and my general enviorment in moments of conflict and disagree.

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to do things for others with a purpose and get things in return.

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to resist to make things for others to have allowed myself to feel compromised.

When i see that i am resolving conflict trought look for have reason, i stop and breathe, i realize that is unnecesary fight for have reason because i limited my habilitie to resolve conflicts and be objetive in moments of conflict.

When i see that i am throwing in face others in any context, i stop and brethe, i realize that is unnecesary and reveal that i am doing things for others with a purpose and within this i forgive myself to do things for others with a purpose and get this in return.

I commit myself to develop the objetvity for resolve conflicts.

I commit myself to accept when i am wrong.



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The fuck off character.

Postby Christopher » 16 Aug 2019, 05:37

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to believe that the solution for disagrees and conflicts is send the shit to others,

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to believe that is more easy to send the shit to others in conflictive situations, when i dont be disposed to hear, accept and see that i am wrong to have allowed myself to think that is more easy to continue being the same.

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to dont want to see my self interest.

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to staying selfless of change internally to have allowed myself to develop a personalitie of "i dont care" because i dont considered necesary for me to have allowed myself to define how a good person according to what the rest think of me, without understand that is the image that i wanted to project and i dont allowed myself to see my inner world and the consequences of my thoughts.

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to wants to change to a purpose.

I forgive myself that accepted and allowed myself to fear of myself and fear of loss myself.

When i see that i am reacting within my personalitie of i dont care, i stop and breathe, i realize that is necesary to learn to give care to my inner world to finally live it physically.

When i see that i am acting to a purpose, i stop and breathe, i realize that the inner change is necesary to give myself the oportunitie of grow and learn to live.

I commit myself to give care, and put attention to necesary thing for change internally and externally.




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